If someone has a path forward they have direction in their life. I always insist that clients create their path when beginning their work. This usually includes creating it physically with pencils or paint. The only instructions are to put an “X” where you are currently and to identify your goals in the opposite corner. The object then is to create the path from where you are presently to your goals. If change is going to take place it is necessary to know what that change looks like when your reach it. The goals may change or be refined as you move forward. Using your creative mind to establish your path forward and putting it on paper or canvas is very different than creating it in your mind. After creating your path and finding direction with it you have a compass on what to do when you find yourself lost or challenged by what to do next.
I often use this with clients who are in a dysfunctional relationship with someone who is addicted. The addiction becomes the overriding objective of the addicted and it is impossible for them to get out of it unless they take responsibility for finding a path to new goals. The addicted path is one of chaos that has no future or direction. The spouse or significant other of the individual in chaos has little possibility of finding their partner on their own path.
For those who are goal oriented but have not considered higher level needs other than being successful in a career or basic security needs, their path is often a straight line. This makes it difficult to meet higher level needs such as emotionally fulfilling relationships and balance in life.